Money can buy everything even happiness essay title
Apr 16, 2018
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Why is it that we all desire to have more money?
Money can provide opportunities for us like never before. However, when we do end up with a higher income, why is it then that happiness is not necessarily a result?
The fact that we know that money can’t buy happiness doesn’t seem to help. Most people continue to have the desire to create a higher income.
I wanted to flip the notion that money doesn’t buy happiness on its head, and show you how happiness can lead to more cash in your hand.
And it’s really quite simple… let’s take a look.
Money CAN Buy You Happiness
Money can lead to happiness.
With money, you have more options. You have more choice in what you can do with your time and energy. When you are out for dinner, you can decide to go to the super-expensive restaurant and pick the most expensive meal without feeling guilty. When you are buying a new car, you are able to get the one that you have always dreamed of – brand new, in black and with all the bells and whistles you have ever dreamed of. When you need a break, why not go on that holiday to Fiji that you have always been dreaming? You have the money.
Spending money on more expensive items now is simply a form of short-term, instant gratification. Longer-term, delayed gratification can result in greater happiness.
Although I am 28 and do not have any children yet, I prefer not to spend my days blowing my cash, having expensive nights out and going on exhaustive long holidays as many others my age like to do. You’re probably asking ‘why’ as normally I talk about doing what you love and doing it more often. That is true, however I also talk a lot about having a plan in place and delaying gratification to create sustained happiness.
What makes me happy is actually knowing that I am building a life where I can support my wife and my children in the future. What makes me happy is knowing that I will be able to retire, financially sound so I can spend my old-age worry-free and enjoying the experience of watching my grandchildren grow.
It’s perceived by many that more money can help in creating this life. However, there is interesting research that has showed otherwise.
The Evidence that More Money Does NOT Lead to Increased Happiness.
Known as the world’s most influential living psychologist, Daniel Kahneman during his TED talk in 2010 makes note of studies that have shown that earning less than $60,000USD per year can have a significant effect on your happiness levels. Simply put (and apologies if this offends anyone), the less you earn under this, the more unhappy you will be. However, when it comes to earning more than $60,000USD per year, Daniel Kahneman notes that it is the flattest line he has ever seen. There is absolutely no correlation between more income and more happiness.
Here’s a little graph to show you a rough guide to what this would look like.
This is obviously a very generalised example, but it helps to convey the message. I highly recommend that you watch Daniel Kahneman’s TED talk. It has been viewed 1.3 million times at the time of writing this and explains some amazing concepts around experiences versus memories and its effect on our happiness.
Simply put, money can’t buy happiness. So why do we all strive for higher incomes when psychological studies have proven that income has little effect on happiness levels? We all have that perception that ‘I will be happier if I just had that little bit more’.
Let’s flip this concept around on its head.
How Happiness Can Help You Generate More Money
Money can’t buy you happiness… but happiness can get you more money!
A few months ago I shared with you the Happiness Model.
Quite simply, happiness leads to greater performance which can eventuate it greater rewards. Let’s refresh what the Happiness Model looks like.
Psychological studies have shown that greater happiness, wellbeing and positivity can lead to greater performance. This is through having a more optimistic and positive outlook as well as thinking with ‘clarity’.
In whatever activity you are undertaking, you are more likely to be successful when you are in this state of happiness and performing at a higher level. What does this bring? This then brings the rewards that you are after. This can be both monetary and non-monetary. Perhaps it is simple recognition from your manager at work and getting a pat on the back. Alternatively, it might lead to hitting your sales targets and achieving your bonus, or a greater prospect of getting a promotion.
The more sustained and consistent your happiness and positive outlook the greater performance and the more successful you will be in your pursuits.
In my role, I am responsible for the processes of developing and motivating the talent (people) in our workforce to ensure greater performance, productivity and overall bottom-line results. This is done through a number of methods such as:
- Providing a competitive salary
- Providing stretch targets linked to a bonus
- Creating a supportive and positive culture
- Providing a suite of benefits that cater to the individual needs of different employees
- But most importantly, providing meaningful work
If you’re coming to work engaged and excited each day then you’re going to be more productive and more successful in what it is that you’re doing.
This is no different in your personal life.
What do you spend your time doing? What are your hobbies and your interests? What excites you?
More often thvan not, the things that interest and excite you are the things that you are generally better at. This is not by chance. This is due to the fact that you’re in a more positive state of mind when you’re undertaking these activities.
To summarise the points above, if you do what you love, you will generally perform better and you will reap the rewards. Not only will you be more wealthy both in monetary and non-monetary forms, you will also be living a more fulfilling and happy life.
You have to love what you do.
Get out into the world and enjoy what’s around… there is a world of opportunity!
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